Sunday, February 05, 2006

Is Sex Important?

I am not trying to be a pervert, don't be offended....just a posting, just a survey...just questions....

1. Can a relationship last without sex?
2. Can a man or woman in a relationship say no to sex when it is offered to him or her?
3. Does sex play an important part in most relationship now?
4. Does it matter if the sex is good or bad?
5. If the sex is bad, would the relationship last, marriage included?
6. Would you actually tell your partner that the sex is bad and ask him/her to improve?
7. Do you feel insulted if you were told that you need to improve?
8. Would you actually fake an orgasm just to make your partner feel good?
9. Does dirty talk help?
10. If your partner actually tell you his/her wildest fantasy, would you actually fulfill his/her request?
11. Would you actually compare your partner performance with another, in silence?
12. A moaner or a dead sheep?

22 comments:

sam zahri said...

hmmm...lemme think ..

Angel Eyes said...

*gulp!*

Cosmic_GurL said...

Ni nak kena jawab one by one ke? Role-playing is good yeah? I wanna be Princess Leia! Can? :p

cpj said...

hey red, tell us bloggers ur answer to all 12 questions first la.. ok?

Muddy said...

Sex is very important in a relationship. Unless you are allowed to sleep with everyone, the act in itself is quite special because its shared between the two of you. It's exclusive. So yes, sex is very important. Very very very! hahaha...

Red Raven said...

Samasam - Hmmm..don think too long

Kaisersoze - Yeah dude….it was a nerve wrecking game…..i can only breathe easy after the 4th goal

Angeleyes - Cat got ur tongue?

Cosmic - Yup….jawap one by one…and yes..role playing is good..princess leia u r…yoda I am

Cik Pijah- My answers….hmmmm….ok…

1. Can a relationship last without sex? Answer : no

2. Can a man or woman in a relationship say no to sex when it is offered to him or her? Answer : Well…of course. Don’t want to ruin a damn good r/ship kan?

3. Does sex play an important part in most relationship now? Answer : To me it is

4. Does it matter if the sex is good or bad? Answer : It does…..really really matters

5. If the sex is bad, would the relationship last, marriage included? Answer : It will but the love they have must be really really strong and tough

6. Would you actually tell your partner that the sex is bad and ask him/her to improve? Answer : Of course…would u want bad sex forever.

7. Do you feel insulted if you were told that you need to improve? Answer : Well…I would take it as a challenge I guess.

8. Would you actually fake an orgasm just to make your partner feel good? Answer : I don’t think men can fake one….i dont

9. Does dirty talk help? Answer : Helps a lot I tell u…hahahahaha

10. If your partner actually tell you his/her wildest fantasy, would you actually fulfill his/her request? Answer : Hmmm…involve a girl, as long as it doesn’t end like Ross…yes…involve another guy…a big NO NO

11. Would you actually compare your partner performance with another, in silence? Answer : Well…depends…sex is good…u tend to forget u know..

12. A moaner or a dead sheep? Answer : C’mon….wonder why Sharapova grunts a lot…..

Muddy - Can't agree with u more there dude…hahahahahahaha

Desparil said...

aisey.. a bit late today.. sorry.. watched the game until 3-1 then dozed off.. so it's confirmed no more jinx?

redbloodedwoman said...

1. abso-NOT-ly.
2. can lor.
3. absolutely.
4. oh yes.
5. no.
6. i'll hint.
7. myb a bit but i'm open for suggestions.
8. oh yes.
9. hmmm.. depends. sumtimes they got carried away.
10. maybe *wink*
11. in silence, yeah, maybe.
12. dead sheep wud be so boring eh.

Matilda said...

1. NO

2. it depends on him/her.

3. Yes

4. it must be GOOD!

5. it does effect, sometimes... but do find ways to overcome the probs ok?

6. I will, in order to improve the relationship

7. Of coz not, instead i felt honoured. at least my partner is being honest to me.

8. No way! I'll always make sure that both of us have orgasm

9. Pretty much!

10. Anything for my man! Absolutely anything for him!

11. No

12. A real moaner, as he likes me to do so.

What abt u Raven? You've saked us this questions, we need your answers now!

Freak and Geek said...

dude, yes to all the above except for no. 12.. but on second note... it's yes to some part of the q's.. not really to the rest.. but then, partly no, i guess.. or... i'm losing track here.. hehehhee..

Suraya said...

My 2 cents worth:
1. Can a relationship last without sex? in some rare cases, i think it can.
2. Can a man or woman in a relationship say no to sex when it is offered to him or her? yes
3. Does sex play an important part in most relationship now? yes
4. Does it matter if the sex is good or bad? yes
5. If the sex is bad, would the relationship last, marriage included? if there r adequate attempts to save it, yes.
6. Would you actually tell your partner that the sex is bad and ask him/her to improve? yes
7. Do you feel insulted if you were told that you need to improve? naturally yes, but it needs to be done, doesn't it?
8. Would you actually fake an orgasm just to make your partner feel good?oh, definitely.
9. Does dirty talk help?most definitely
10. If your partner actually tell you his/her wildest fantasy, would you actually fulfill his/her request?most of the times i would
11. Would you actually compare your partner performance with another, in silence? surely
12. A moaner or a dead sheep?the former

Anonymous said...

1. KENOT
2. DEPENDs on any given situation
3. YES
4. YES
5. NO
6. HARUS
7. NO
8. A total NO-NO
9. VERY MUCH YES
10. If his fantasy is to do threesome... must be two girls and him not two three men or two men one lady... I get freak out man!
11. PROBABLY
12. Dead sheep boring la.

So where's your answers dude?

Red Raven said...

Des - Confirm no more dude…I don’t think u were….i watched the whole game n no mamak changing channels…

RBW - Hahaha…maybe….depends on what he ask more like it kan?

Matilda - I answered oredi lor…refer to my reply to cikpijah….. and anything for ur man? Lucky man I tell u….a very lucky man. Say congrats to him on my behalf…hahahahaha

FnG - Hahahahaha…apa apa aje lah…let’s just say its all yes from the Freak and all no from the Geek??

Mommy Feline - Wouldn’t it be unfair to u if u do that…I mean, fake ur orgasm?

Stellar - Depends on any given situation….n what situations are those?

Matilda said...

yup dude, gotta agree with u...

he's damn lucky fella... yeah, we shld all meet up one day for tea... =)

trueblue said...

1. Depends how patient or understanding that person is. Berapa lama dia nak tahan? Ni kalau dah kawin la..kalau belum kahwin, then too bad..you have to wait..
2. If you have to, yes
3. Yes
4. Very much, yes
5. If you tak sampai hati to tell your partner, then I guess it can
6. Have to la kan..if not, rugila
7. Nolah..if it wud help to improve the relationship, why not..
8. Yes
9. Yes
10. Depends
11. If pernah buat with more than one person, can la..but if your partner is your first, then susahla
12. Moaner

cpj said...

waah.. u oledi get loads of feedback fr fellow blogger.. after this can sum it all up into a nice conclusion eh?

Cosmic_GurL said...

Cik Pijah, let me sum it all up for you. Basically the male bloggers are saying SEX is VERY VERY VERY important while female bloggers are saying they're all moaners, not dead sheep! LOL!

cpj said...

hahaha.. thanks cosmic_gurl for the conclusion. now i wonder, wht'll be ur next blog entry Red?

Red Raven said...

Matilda – Hahahaha…u can say that again

Trueblue – yeah….rugi lah kan kalau tak bagitau…..hahahahaha

Cikpijah – tulah….maybe cos of the topic kot. Conclusion….maybe in another posting… ;)

Cosmic – wah….seems like I don’t need to make any conclusion..someone did it for me

Hajar said...

yes and no whichever appropriate. hahaha...

thanks for dropping by.

toughcookie said...

hmmm... no, yes, yes, yes, no, yes, no if there're strong reasons, yes, sometimes, depends, yes, the former.

hehe...

babe, it's waaay important man... but that doesn't mean we should jump and shag la kan...

ME said...

cool post cik pijah said it out loud!!!!!